Large Passengers, should they be made to order UberXL?

It is a small difference in gas mileage if that is your concern. If your concern is wear and tear on the seats in your car, you need to find a different way to earn income. Honestly, I am a large woman, but I drove a very small car for over ten years and was never uncomfortable. Cars are designed to hold people, and some people are larger than others. There is no reason for a single person to call for an UberXL. That is referring to how many passengers and luggage they have, not the size of the person. 

It may have taken him longer to get in your car for many reasons including some medical problems with knees, back, or even simply arthritis. You never know what someone else is experiencing. I find the slowest people to get in my car have their children with them even when they are young and in good shape. 

250 is nothing. I've had a 450 cargo x2 once. I know because they laughed and told me so. Tipped well, but not sure if it had anything to do with their weight. 

I will add that they didn't wear seat belts. Maybe I should have said something but I didn't wanna offend.  Not sure if they would have fit. 

Yes! I have long been thinking this. Don't airplanes make you order two seats? If you weigh over a certain amount you need to order the bigger car.

imagine if it was uber pool and some poor guy had to share it with him...

I hope your snack supply was on point.

Can you tell a person you won't accept their ride for being too big? Does Uber have any rules on this?!

wow, this is such a rude thought. I mean I get it but isn't this like "fat-ist"?

As long as they can fit through the door, it's legit.  Yes, it hurts gas mileage but that's the game you play.