My hubby is a rideshare driver and I HATE it

Sorry that you are feeling this way, a job should not be ruining your marriage! I am a female driver so my experience may be different than a males driver perspective but it is not very easy to have relations with your passengers in my opinion! Many trips are fairly short, you hardly get past the friendly how are you chatter before you are on to the next passenger. Many people travel in multiples making a situation of cheating even more unlikely. 

Does your husband drive at night often? I would think this would be a time for more temptation (drunk passengers) but again most girls will travel in groups at night.

Do you have any reasons to suspect your husband? Has he been unfaithful before? Have you found any evidence in his car?

Could your husband pick up another job to earn extra income? Perhaps a delivery driver where he hardly interacts with others?

If he is cheating at all, it's far more likely that he is cheating in some other location and using driving as an excuse to be gone from the house.

I hate to say it but if you don't trust him not to cheat then maybe rideshare driving isn't the main problem here... Might be time for some counseling.

Highly unlikely. As the 2 lady drivers basically say below, it’s superficial conversations to keep passengers happy, the passenger wants to get somewhere in terms of location, not in terms of relationship, and anyway, I don’t want to creep out my female passengers. I can sometimes get passengers who talk quite personal stuff, but I don’t initiate and I don’t probe with questions, again because I don’t want to creep them out. We have guidelines on communicating with passengers. Flirty language is not allowed. I’d hope passengers who feel uncomfortable with a driver’s conversation reported them as those drivers give the rest of us a bad name. 

I'm curious as to why you think he is cheating. In my opinion, if someone is a cheater they will always find a situation in which they can cheat. By making him quit rideshare driving will do nothing for your relationship. Most jobs involve working with others and working with others of the opposite sex, perhaps you need to look deeper into your relationship to overcome these feelings.

Why do you live in another state? Is rideshare driving all your husband does for work? Can't he drive wherever you are currently living? I would think the distance would be a reason for the relationship strain not the act of rideshare driving. 

I live and drive in Boston. Trust me not every ride is full of flirty attractive women. I wish it was..it's not like that. I wouldn't worry so much. Plus if you're not even living there why worry so much about how many hours he's driving. He's doing his best for ya. Good luck to you.

Not trying to be mean here but I think you are being a little too sensitive. Your husband is trying to provide for your family, driving is not fun especially when you have to get back in your car after already working all day. Have you tried to talking to him about this? I don't know your husband but I would think this might be all in your head.

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I just started doing Lyft and Uber. I am good looking guy and Im always well dressed well. With that being said , I have alot of younger women and young ladies going back and forth

I never thought of this, but driving is such a good excuse for a cheating spouse to leave the house and stay out for an extended period. Unlike a regular job where he needs to be at a specific location and having the hours tracked, driving gives so much freedom of hours and locations.  

Well, in general, the demographics of people who take Ubers are younger generation. Not sure about beautiful but younger more affluent people take them, sure.  Then it also depends on where. If your husband chooses to drive in downtown Boston like Back Bay or Financial District, he’d definitely see young female professionals. This is even more true near campuses, like in Cambridge.

Not sure if drivers are all that successful in meeting females while driving for Uber but that’s hard to comment specific to your husband. Yes, the encounters are there, but I’m thinking it’s easier to meet someone at a bar than driving for an Uber

To be honest, if you think your husband is cheating he probably is or is going to for a few reasons. One, your insecurity is making you less and less attractive to him. No man wants an insecure woman and no woman wants an insecure man. That quality is unacceptable by any standard of humanity, unless for a POMP. Two, the conversations that the two of y'all are going to have, will be focused on everything else besides the two of y'all. The proper focus in a relationship is each person focusing on how to make the other person happy Not how happy is the other person making you. When your so focus on what the other person is or isn't doing you, you lose sight of what your doing to them.

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