Monica Castleberry (momof4)

Ride Expert from Philadelphia PA

Mom & Nursing Student by day Ride Share Driver by night always on the go
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  • Thats's awesome. Doesn't that feel great when someone does something like that.  Obviously you made their night for whatever reason. People just dont tip like that just because you drove from point a to point b. Something you said or did or just your personality made them feel good for them to want to give you a tip that big. There are some decent kind people out there.

    I am in Nursing School got done a long day. Had a big exam on Monday that would decide if I could continue to next level. I was exhausted really needed to sleep because I would be up the rest of the weekend studying. Had 2 rides made 20.00. Had a pick up at local bar. Picked up husband & wife 7 min trip home they didnt seem drunk.  Wife got out husbamd handed me $. I assumed 2 1.00 bills. Chucked it in consol. Went to get a coffee as I go to hand girl the 2.00 it was a 1.00 bill and a 100.00 bill. I was shocked. Dudnt know what to do. They only lived 7 min from my house so I went back to their house and put a note in their mailbox saying it was their Uber driver from the night before and I was concerned that they may have mistakenly given me 100.00 bill instead of a 1.00 dollar. I greatly appreciate it but wouldnt want to keep it if it was given by mistake. I would be happy to return it if that was the case as that was a lot of $ and left my phone number. I did go home after my next ride praying it wasnt a mistake. I needed the money but was too tired and was hoping I didnt hear back from them. I never heard from them. I'll never know if it was mistake and were too embarassed to ask for it or if they gave it to me willingly. All I know is I got to bed, studied the rest of the weekend, passed my final, and made it to the next level of my Nursing class thanks to them. Man upstairs was looking out for me. Dont think thst will ever happen again. 😊 But.... you never know maybe when the harvest moon is out again, the tides are high  and the lunar cycle sync up we will see some nice big tips. Thanks for sharing your story. Its nice to hear stories about kind decent people doing things like that. Hopefully one day I can return the favor to someone who msy be in need. Pay it forward!!! Take care. Be careful out there.😊


  • Two things I will not give up. My car and my gun. Definately not for lyft credits.


  • Wes, thought I would share this with you. After I posted last comment I got a request Uber X scheduled ride to Casino long pick up fee possible. Decided since I had to pick up at Casino I would gamble. Lol I was bored not much else going on.  Uber gave me .79 for long pick up fee lol. Got there no one came out. Cancel fee popped up. Normally would've taken it & went on my way. I decided to wait nothing better to do. Finally rider comes out with his friend. All chaos breaks out as soon as I start trip. Not in a bad way. The 2 of them were funny but a mess, pleasantly buzzed. They want alcohol. We head to a take out beer place then a 7 11. They offered me a beer and whatever I wanted at 7 11 I declined on both. We got on our way. I asked if they were ok with the turnpike more chaos as they didnt understand we were still in PA but in Bucks County PA.  Got on TP then things were calm. They were 2 firemen from NY had a meeting in NJ  & were staying at a hotel in NJ. Anyway the one said dont worry we will tip I know its a long trip. Had a great conversation they were super nice and funny.  From accepting trip to drop off 55 min. Took me 25 to get home. Uber paid me 37.77. Rider tipped me 65.00. I took a gamble and it paid off for once. Not bad for for 80 min. So next year look for "the harvest moon". Lol


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     6 years ago in  How do you feel about driving underage passengers?

    When I first started driving I wasnt aware we couldnt drive kids under 18. Thankfully I didnt drive more than a few and nothing ever happened. I have had a few riders recently that looked under 18. I asked how old they were they said 18 and offered ID. It's not always going to be that easy. This shouldnt be a drivers responsibility. If the person is over 18 but a driver isnt sure and asks for ID I can gurantee we will end up pissing someone off. Which means we are going to be rated with 1 star. What if the rider is under 18 but has a fake ID how are we to know its fake? I've seen some fake ID's I wouldnt know the difference. It's Uber's app this should be Uber's responsibility. 


  • Chris, I know they are out there. I just dont think it's right. I live a few blocks from a bar where this elderly woman striiped totally naked and sat on the bench in front of bar. Probably has dementia or some other mental illness. Some young guy passing by took a pic put it on FB of course went viral. I notified FB and requested it be taken down. The bar took it and blew the pic up and put a caption on it and put it up in bar. They did blur her face out. Damage all ready done everyone in neighborhood seen the original. I think it's so wrong on many levels. It just sucks that people post this stuff. People with dementia or other illness are not in their right mind. Suppose someone did that to their family member. It's awful what some people post for a like or a laugh. 


  • They are absolutely one of the most dishonest company ever. They lie cheat, and  steal from the drivers and riders. It would be great if the drivers would all refuse to drive on a few busy nights and then have the riders not request rides at all on a few nights. Unfortunately we all cant do that because we need the money and riders dont seem to care. As long as riders get a cheaper ride than a taxi they are happy. Most Riders are not concerned about the drivers being ripped off. I had another ride Uber X a few nights ago that Uber only made .39 less than I did. 

    I still have not got an answer back. My question about the booking fee "had to go to another team that was better at answering my question". The booking fees are still different on the rides I get. There is no pattern it seems random. I live in Philly right outside Bucks County so I get trips both in Philly and outside the city. I checked to see if the rides with higher booking fee are the ones outside the city but thats not the case either. Dara is no better than Travis! Dara puts these commercials out (obviously paying a fortune for them) saying Uber is making things better and easier just more lies and wasting more money that could go to drivers. The new drivers app (more $ wasted) is no better than the last one. There is no way drivers helped with that app. What drivers would've agreed to the new surge? The promotions they offer are unobtainable unless you are out there driving 12hrs per day. Pool and express pool are awful. I just read an article where Dara wants to eventually increase the amount of pool/express rides. Of course that makes Uber more $ but not the driver. Thankfully I only need to drive until I am done Nursing School. There are drivers out there who leased or bought cars to drive full time, its their only way to support themselves and their families. Uber will never change on their own. Someone needs to step up and do something about them. Thanks for responding.


  • When I started Nursing School I needed a job with flexibility. I decided to drive for Uber. The higher ups at Uber are truly disgusting, dishonest people. They have no respect nor do the care about the drivers.

    When I started driving I was very nervous and afraid. That quickly changed. Although I still get nervous once in awhile. I've met people from all over the US. I dont base my opinion of the riders on how much they tip. Yes there are times you go out of your way for a rider and yes most definately they should tip. It would be great if all riders tipped but in my opinion not tipping doesnt make them horrible human beings. I've had the privilege of riding with kind, considerate people. Some going through terrible tragedies, others who were so positive and sweet they just made you night. Others who were just fun and easy going that the trip was an absolute pleasure. I've had some sweet notes riders left for me in the app. I just wish I knew who they were from. Some I can figure out others I dont have a clue. It would be nice if drivers could do this for riders. It would also be nice if there was a way to send rider a quick thank you for tipping you in the app. There are some riders that are just ignorant, rude, mean people that I wish I never had to deal with. Others have no manners, no morals, and are down right aholes. I can say most of my riders have been decent people


  • It's a full moon at least to the naked eye. Technically last night was a full moon better known in September as a harvest moon (dont know this looked it up) lol. So far no tips. Lol


  • Great sign. Thanks for sharing.


  • I understand this was your 1st ride,  were unsure what to do, and driver didnt speak English but you could've canceled ride and ordered another Uber. If you got charged a cancel fee you would just send message to Uber and they wouldve gave you a credit.

    I would not give her 5 stars as she put you all in  danger, she isnt supposed to have her child with her, and she shouldn't of had those car seats taking up rider seats. It's great she has car seats for riders but she needs to move them when older people who dont need them get in. There are several issues here. I would give 2 stars as some of this is your fault for getting in there and taking that ride.  I get it was awkward, your first time, and she didnt speak English but safety first. Maybe she doesnt understand Uber rules but its her responsibility to find out what they are before she started driving. I would report to Uber though, just wrong on so many levels. 


  • Thank you Wes for commenting. I just dont feel comfortable putting a sign or box in my car. I see videos, post,  etc... of drivers saying they do it snd it helps. I just cant bring myself to do it. If it was making a big difference for everyone who used it I guess I would try and convince myself to go for it. As of now just cant do it lol. Was just curious what others thought. Thanks again. Enjoy your day


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     6 years ago in  Heard it in the back

    I picked up 2  30 something men Saturday night at a bar. Joe and Jack were feeling no pain Jay was trashed. (Names were changed to protect the innocent and not so innocent). Jay says did you bang (fk) (some words were changed) Jill last night? Joe is trying to ignore him but he keeps asking. Joe finally answers to shut him up. So Jay says I have to tell you the story of Joe's last bday. Jack says, "Oh no here we go again, I am apologizing now". Here is the story told by Jay,  his words not mine. We go to Chinatown to meet up with some hookers.  They make us all strip naked and take a shower together before they would touch our d's. I am not gay or anything but I have a small d & I'm 6'1, Jack has a medium d he is 6', but I have to tell you my man sitting next you has the biggest d I ever saw. I dont get it he is only 5'8.  I am not gay or anything but I had to stare at it. If he took off his clothes now I would stare at it  I'm not gay but its the biggest f ing d i ever saw, I am f ing amazed. I asked the hookers if they ever seen a d that big? I was wondering if he had a rubbers for a d that big. I was thinking maybe they would have to put saran wrap on his d. I just couldnt stop staring at it and I am not gay. (Real serious he says)Hey if you want you can come into club with us I'm sure Joe wouldnt mind showing you his big d. You will be amazed at his big d. Hey Joe would you mind showing her? It's just the most biggest f ing d ever. If you think its the biggest d ever maybe he can break a record or something (like my opinion would count lol). Dont think i am f ing gay but just cant get over how big his f ing d is". I look at Joe and ask who ordered the Uber he says I did. I reply "you know your getting 1 star". He says, "I figured that" . I just smiled and said no worries if Jay is telling the truth you deserve 5 stars 😊 We all laughed Joe and Jack apologized and seemed somewhat embarrassed.  Drunk Jay was still going on about the big D, not being gay, and me going in club to see the big f ing d as they were getting out of car.  I dont think Jay will be picking up women anytime soon telling this story.  Although I think he is secretly in love with Joe's big f ing d.  Lol  I have 3 boys, 2 brothers, and 6 nephews nothing shocks me especially driving for Uber. There wasn't much I could do but laugh. The funniest part was he actually sounded so sincere and serious while telling this story. Never came to his drunk mind that this really wasnt something to be telling your 53 yr old female Uber driver. Other 2 were embarrased and apologized multiple times and left me a nice $20 tip. If I had a 1.00 for everytime he said D##k, f ing, and I'm not gay I could've cashed out and went home for the night.


  • Too many drivers out there between Uber/Lyft. They need to do what New York did and put freeze on hiring or do better background check not a 3rd party.  A real background check fbi/fingerprint that would weed out the criminals, DUI's, etc... The lawsuits would stop, bad press would stop. It would get rid of all those drivers with criminal past plus it would prevent new criminals from being hired. Get rid of the criminals the remaining drivers would get more rides.  At any given time in my area when I open rider app there are 8 cars shown in a 2 mile radius ( that shows the area is saturated with drivers). When I started 15 months ago I was getting rides one after another on weekends. Weeknights were slower but not like they are now. On Holidays are usually busy I've waited 45 min or longer for a ride request. Weeknights now are same way. A handful of drivers quit today but there are 50 drivers or more signing up to drive tomorrow. 


  • I am not sure if I should take this question seriously  or I am misunderstanding the question? What else could they give us for driving along with the money? Is that what you are asking? I would think the only reason anyone drives is to make money. More achievable promotions, increase in the fares, bonus for drivers who consistantly maintain a high rating. It would also be great if they gave the drivers respect, honesty, and trust. Sorry if I didnt answer question correctly. 


  • They can and should tip drivers especially for really short or long trips. Be courteous and respectful. We are not your personal driver. We drive you from point a to point b safely, our car is clean, if we are not rude please give 5 stars. As a driver I dont pick you up with the intention of making you miserable I cant control roads being closed, traffic, that my air freshner isnt a scent you like, GPS being wrong, or Uber app going crazy at times. Drivers cannot read your mind. Not everybody's personalities mesh.  Is it really worth someone losing their job?  Really think about what you are doing when rating your driver. If your job was dependent on stars would you still have a job? Everybody has an off day and you never know what someone is going through. Just be reasonable. Dont make your driver wait. If somerhing unexpected happens text or call your driver. Its common courtesy.  When you make us wait you may cost us a ride which means money. Dont bring open containers of alcohol, a child without a carseat, or expect is to drive 5 people when we have 4 seats/seatbelts. 

    Beware:

    Drivers who tell you they need cash from you for tolls. Yes have plenty of riders tell me this happens.

    Make sure the car, profile pic, and tag match what it says in your app. If it doesn't DO NOT GET IN CAR

    Ladies: Dont pass out in an Uber especially with male driver. Yes my young riders tell me they do this. 

    Always be aware of your surroundings. 

    Dont order Uber express pool late at night. Dropping you off on a street corner at 2am isnt a great idea. As a driver I cannot do it. I dont mind driving the extra block but some drivers will because it was your choice.


  • I dont trust Uber at all. Probably taking more &  hope we dont notice. I still didnt receive an answer back from 'the team that could answer". It happened all weekend. I drive in Philadelphia and Bucks County. Some trips are 2.00 others are 2.20 no pattern. 

    Had another trip over weekend (Uber X) Uber got 49% of fare I got 51%. I havent had the chance to question that yet. I am sure they will send a scripted answer sent by a computer with a persons name so I think someone real addressed my question. I so cant wait for the day I no longer need to drive for these idiots.


  • I had 2 people that are fequent passengers of mine I asked them if they did anything different. They said they request like any other time. I checked to see if ot's on surged rides, their is no pattern. Going to send Uber another message. I've never had a response like I got last night. Now that they are aware I noticed it curious to see if it continues.


  • Partner.uber.com scroll down its on your pay statement for the week


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     6 years ago in  Philly Uber Riders, look for Driver Ed and Carpool Karaoke

    I enjoy them. Gives me something to look at when waiting for rides. I also enjoy the videos of you telling some of your Uber stories. The little girl going to school, your scariest trip, etc..  Thanks for sharing.


  • I found it by accident just have to remember how i got to it. I think it was on my payment statement at the bottom. It wasnt on driver app. Had to log in on the regular uber app. I am driving right now but if no one post how to find it or you still cant find it I will post later on.